EFT: Finding Core Issues
How do you find core issues with EFT? Why is this important?
When EFT "doesn't
work," it is usually NOT because it doesn't work. You have to
find core issues.
Do you find it
difficult to find core issues? If you do, the following might help...
Instead, the real
reason for not seeing results is because the practitioner has not
applied EFT properly. Perhaps the practitioner has not been specific
enough or maybe emerging aspects are masking otherwise valid healing
work. We have covered these possibilities earlier in this tutorial.
There is another
important element of sophistication that we need to explore ...
namely ... the discovery of Core Issues. Sometimes a client's
"presenting problem" is nothing more than a symptom of a
Core Issue--a much deeper, much more important underlying problem.
Once the Core Issue is discovered, it can usually be broken down into
specific events and handled routinely.
There are many live
examples of Core Issues throughout the various EFT training tapes.
Study, for example, the case of Nate's "fear of heights" on
the From EFT to the Palace of Possibilities DVD set. Nate comes up on
stage with other height phobics and makes only modest headway. After
some detective work, however, it was discovered that the real Core
Issue was the sense of ridicule he felt when he was teased and
prodded to make a parachute jump from a helicopter (while in the
armed services). Once we took care of that Core Issue, his fear of
heights vanished. In addition, his eyesight improved and his elevated
blood pressure dropped dramatically (without taking his medication).
Other live examples
abound within our Steps toward becoming The Ultimate Therapist DVD
set. Pay particular attention to the sessions with Craig (Bashful
Bladder), David (Fear of Public Speaking), Martha (Being Reserved)
and Jane (Accident).
Finding Core Issues is
an art and it requires experience to do it expertly. Fortunately,
there are some common sense questions that can help you get to Core
Issues quickly. Here are some of them....
"What does this
issue remind you of?"
"When was the
first time you can remember feeling the same kind of feeling?"
"If there was a
deeper emotion underlying this problem, what might it be?"
"If you could live
your life over again, what person or event would you prefer to skip?"
Please be aware,
however, that a favorite answer clients like to give to these
questions is, "I don't know." When you hear this, be
persistent. You can say, "Well, just guess for me." Their
guesses are usually right on target.
For
help, write to me (Craig) at: eftcyprus @ yahoo.com and I can set you up with a free 15 minute Skype session.
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